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Foreplay Facts that Rev Sexual Health |
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Written by Chrissy S.
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Sunday, 29 October 2006 |
Foreplay Facts that Rev Sexual Health
To have sex without foreplay is like forcing yourself to eat when you are not hungry. It's just no fun at all. Foreplay is so named because it is the fun that helps build the sexual excitement, prior to the actual sexual act. Foreplay is meant to entice, to tease and stimulate, before consumation and ultimate satisfaction. In the period of foreplay, you should take pleasure from arousing your partner to the point where they are begging you for more. This is preparing their body, their senses and their mind to be fully engaged in the sexual experience. Beside the physical elements of foreplay, there is also intellectual foreplay. When two people connect on an intellectual level, they can anticipate an enhanced sexual union. If such a connection is not present it's doubtful they can fully enjoy the sexual experience. Let's take a look at the various elements of foreplay and the many ways you can take the sexual experience to new heights.
Men and women are naturally meant to enjoy each other. A woman has a body that entices a man. She has contours that you long to trace with your hands. She is soft and smooth, which makes you want to draw her close and caress her. If you know the places on her body where she likes to be touched, you can watch her excitement build, as her body responds to the pleasure you are bringing her. Whisper to her about what she likes, and where she wants your hands go next. She will tell you!
A woman's lips: women love to be kissed and to kiss back, and many men miss this element of foreplay, not realizing its importance. Women can't get enough of this during foreplay. When you kiss a woman, it starts little electrical currents running through her, making her want to draw closer. It elicits more desire than you can imagine. When you kiss a woman's lips now and then, and tenderly trace your lips over her face, cheeks, nose, and eyelids and finally find your way back to her lips, you will like the result. She'll let you know when she's ready for you to move on to other areas of her body.
Her hair: Most woman enjoy having their hair played with or brushed. They like to feel you run your fingers through it. If you see her sitting and playing with her hair, that would be a cue for you to brush or play with it.
A woman's fingers and toes: have you ever sucked on those digits? They are very sensitive and this can be very sensual, especially during intercourse.
A woman's breasts: most men are very familiar with breasts and can't wait to touch them. Therefore the mistake that can occur during foreplay or intercourse is paying so much attention to the breasts that you neglect their owner! It is possible to stimulate the breasts to such a degree that they become numb, and while you may be having a great time, she will be impatiently waiting for you to move on. Better to hold back a little, and allow her to anticipate the moment that you are going to fondle her breasts. As you brush your fingers lightly across the breasts to her neck, she will be breathlessly waiting for your return to those parts.
The small of a woman's back: the small of the back is very sensitive and has many pressure points where many women hold stress. If you gently massage this area it will feel heavenly to her. You will transport her with delight if you incorporate soft kisses into this tender massage.
A woman's soft spots: these are sensitive areas of a woman's body where it may not have occurred to you to venture, but if you find them, she will love you even more. Try exploring these tender spots.
Behind her knees
Inside of her arms
Inner thighs
Hollow of her neck
Gentle stroking of these areas, peppered lightly with kisses is quite erotic for the woman. Keep in mind always, that gentleness is paramount for a woman's pleasure.
A woman's buttocks: here you can be somewhat more forceful. Take those cheeks in your hands, knead them, and rotate them. This releases stress and signals to the woman that you are progressing to even more erogenous zones.
A woman's G-spot: This elusive spot has been found instrumental in providing a woman with the most intense pleasure. For a woman, orgasms can manifest differently depending on where they originate, and an orgasm resulting from stimulation of this area can be amazing in its intensity. The location of the G-spot is mid-way between her cervix and pubic bone. Insert a finger or two, palm up in her vagina and use a beckoning motion to titillate it. During intercourse, the best position to make magical contact with the G-spot is the missionary position. For extra kudos, try giving her a "blended orgasm" by targetting both her G-spot and her clitoris at the same time. Rear-entry position is best for this. |
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Last Updated ( Sunday, 29 October 2006 )
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